and Wen Boley
it wasn't easy... The coming together of twinflames, at least not
Although, our meeting and eventual/inevitable falling in Love was
surrounded by seemingly insurmountable obstacles, it was also marked
by magical synchronicities.... We were led by Spirit to trust that
we were indeed, following our true path.
Wen was first introduced only to my voice when a mutual acquaintance
played a tape of me singing acapella. He mentioned to Wen that he
was going to make me a country star. Wen was struck with a sudden
knowing and replied, "That isn't a country voice, that's a Celtic
We met face to face a few days later when I went to Wen's recording
studio to sing backups for another mutual acquaintance. My first impression
of Wen was that he was "real". When I looked into his eyes,
I saw directly into his soul, he was without pretense. I liked him
instantly and felt a kindred spirit connection. At this point, there
wasn't any indication that our relationship would be anything more
Shortly after we met, Wen sat down at the keyboard and played for
me his own music...
I heard qualities within his music that had been playing in my head
for several years...
My heart skipped a beat, could this be the musician I had been praying
"When is my musician going to manifest?" had been a constant
prayer of mine for the past couple of years. Now I was looking at
the "When" as "Wen", and it just so happened that
his record label at the time was called "Manifest Records".
I gratefully recognized the gift that was being offered me... and
it seems that Wen did too, as he had been hoping for a female Celtic
singer to wander into his life and add a new dimension to his music.
A creative working relationship quickly followed. We both eagerly
looked forward to our Tuesday and Friday mornings together. The music
unfolded for us so effortlessly, so magically... there were times
when Wen gave me music he had just written and I already had the melody
lines and lyrics that fit perfectly... and times when I gave him melody
lines and lyrics and the music would fall from his fingertips like
a long lost friend, triggering many moments of déjà vu, witnessing the existence of multiple lives and realities we have
shared. It was soon very apparent by the blissful ease of our musical
partnership that we were fulfilling our divine purpose with each other.
A strange phenomenon began to happen during all that blissful music
making. My body grew more and more uncomfortable by the physical distance
between us during our long hours of musical co-creation. We had become
so "one" on the creative, spiritual level but had still
maintained "propriety" on the physical
level for so long. My body was very uncomfortably rebelling. Eventually,
I had to ask Wen (as silly as I felt) if I could touch him. If I lightly
placed my hands over his as he played, or set my hands upon his shoulders,
I felt that maybe that kind of merging would satisfy me. Relief did
come at just the touch of his hand, enough so that the intolerable
physical discomfort would dissipate for a while... but it would come
back later even stronger.
Looking back on it now, it is quite humorous as well as mysterious
that my own body's wisdom was far more "knowing" than my
mind. One touch led to another and another until Wen was certain that
I was open for developing our relationship on the physical level.
One day he bravely stole a kiss. Still very conflicted in mind and
body, I exclaimed, "Don't ever do that again!" leaving him
thoroughly confused and disappointed. However, Wen was not one to
be easily deterred, and soon convinced me that my objections were
Nine months after we met, we moved in together, facing enormous challenges
and experiencing the highest of highs, and the lowest of lows, all
the while, our lives had a dreamlike quality every moment we were
The first couple of years were truly my "dark night of my soul" as I stepped through ring after ring of fear, surrendering more deeply
into trust, and ultimately making my life congruent with my being.
How wonderful to have my True Love to hold onto, and hang onto, with
his unconditional love and support. Love was the thread of truth out
of which I wove the tapestry of my new life.
Life did finally get better. The shift occurred the day we were married
on 9/9/99, and we have continued in an upward ascending spiral ever
since. Weve created four albums of music to mark the seven years
since the reuniting of our Twinflames. Interestingly enough, we chose
"Twinflame" as the name by which our music would be known
early in our relationship, intuiting the reality of our Divine compliment
beyond the wildest imaginings of our conscious minds and lifelong
yearnings of our wounded but healing hearts.
story is far from over, in fact we're sure that its only just
begun... Right now we are being called to move more fully into alignment
with our purpose, as are lightworkers all over the planet. Words cannot
express the depth of our gratitude as we begin to taste the joy of
the fullness of that expression. Dreams are tangibly manifesting around
us... erasing all trace of struggle and limitation.
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